As far as I know, most of transgender people have been in such a situation where they were asked many awkward questions. There are some questions that you can never ask when dating transgender women. When and why you decide to be a transgender? They never make any decisions when they become a transgender man or woman. Only people who don't know about transgender people might ask this question. Instead of asking questions like this, you can show your interest on their habits and families. Showing your interest on ts dating transgender women is a great way to attract your partner.
Have you had transition surgery? This is the most awkward question. Transtition surgery is about their private part, they have the right to determine whether share their transition process with you. Most of transgender people don't want to share their transition process with other people. You should never ask your transgender dating partner this question. Pay more attention to dating than the storyof your partner.
Another important thing you should know is that transgender women don't want to be treated in a special way, just treat them in the same way with ordinary girls. If you are a gentleman when dating ordinary girls, why don't you treat a trans gilr in the same way to show your respect. You'd better forget she is a trans girl, she is the same asn other girls you date. Inteading of showing your interest on her history and past life, you can talk something about the future life with her, or share some of your interesting experience with her. If you want to date a trans woman for serious relationship, please try to understand her and support her. Communication is also very important in your relationship. This is the only way for you to know each other, and only by this way, can you really understand the inner heart of your dating partners.